This is the most difficult post I’ve ever written. But I want to do it. To tell the truth.
It is hard to believe that the person you’re dating belonging to the left and and a musician can be a bad person towards his girlfriend.
Never date a person that has problems with his self-esteem because he will destroy yours. I’ve spent one year with a jealous person who cried to me in the middle of the street whenever he wanted. He hated most of my friends. When I received messages on my mobile phone, he demanded me to open them in front of him, as well as I was asked to stop talking to some friends for no reason. He even insulted me because in a concert I was molested by one boy and instead of punching him in the face, he preferred the easiest way, to insult me. And blame me.
At the beginning of the relationship he liked me among other things, because of my studies and career, at the end, he despised my job, my projects, everything (while he was ending the high school I had always supported him).
I remember that he was full of hate. Once I asked him why did he treat me so bad and his answer was “lately, I see you so pretty and I see myself so ugly that I need to call your attention”.
As if all of this was not enough, at the end of the relationship he also asked people to stop talking to me and deleting me on the social networks.
I feel much better now thanks to the people that have supported me and I believe in love, but I will never forget nor forgive this person. I’ve tried so hard because it is insane, but how can a girl forgive a batterer that has ruined her life? The saddest part of all this story is that being the third girlfriend he had, I am the second that called him this way. I also know that the one after me left him because he was “a jealous person and a crazy that controlled her” so I’ve also learnt that this kind of people never change and all the girls that will appear in his life will be victims too.
I know that it is possible that he reads this, but I am not afraid anymore and if he understands this text and dares to do something, he will not find a crying girl anymore because I would be very glad to talk to him.
So, if you suffer mistreatment, do not hide it or feel guilty. They are the ones who have a problem, not you.